Some critics declare women as a colourful picture of this universe and some call her a symbol of frailty. A woman is always a topic of discussion either as is clever like Lady Macbeth or innocent like Ophelia.
Existence of woman is the dye of the depiction in universe and by this instrument, engorgement of life moves.
A woman is always struggling for her existence, sometimes is appreciated as Mona Lisa and sometimes criticized as Helen of Troy. Sometimes her services for humanity are appreciated like Florence Nightingale and Mother Teresa and sometimes her social services are admired like Dr. Edna Adan.
Life is full of trials and hardship. Every step, a challenge is waiting for them.
Women suffer more than men.
Every woman passes through trial. Trails are like iron refinery from where she passes and molds herself in her best version.
It’s true that behind every successful man, there is a woman. But, barely have we found that behind every successful woman, there is a man. It’s not wrong to say that behind a successful woman is a hard life, criticisms, pinching remarks and struggle for her survival.
Every woman has her story but in a different way which is describing her past. Some of them are physically battered or hade by vicious parents. Some had pubescent concerns while some of them faced sexual exploitation as a child by their own family members.
Some had messed up love stories. Some had been toxoid into sex in the tag of affection. Some had been stoned. Some were date raped. Some had been inhumanly snapped on couch. Some had been threatened by their ex-boyfriend. Some were in an obnoxious rapport. Some had menstrual problems. Some of them were buried or burnt alive with their husbands.
Some had a broken family or got a divorce. Some had an obesity issue or financial droughts. Some had drug or alcohol addiction. Some had a few unsuccessful suicide attempts.
A famous American psychologist D.V Arun said in his latest research, “If you see a woman, who went through any of these but had already wiped her tears, tied her hair up, masked her sorrows with a divine smile, stood tall and strong, started walking towards her future because she still has some hope left inside her and has not given up on the concept of love that still exists in this world, do not stab her with her past.”
“Do not confront her. Do not slap her with more abuse. Give way for her and walk beside her. May be hold her hands and walk for a while. You’ll know how sweet that soul is and how strong her hopes are! You’ll be amazed at how she carries herself after all her energy has been sucked out”, he added.
Research says, “She need not always be only the woman next door or from a different home. She could be your own friend, your own sister, your own girlfriend, your own wife, even may be your own mother. Do not judge her by her past. Gift her peaceful future that she deserves. Hold her hands against the world, which knows only to judge. Give her the love that she always yearned for.”
A woman is name of bravery when she delivers a baby. She is the name of sacrifice when she remains hungry but gives food to her kids. She turns to a weapon when it comes to her dignity self-respect.
In short, women is power in herself.